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My Personal Experience With Hair Extensions (9 Methods!)

Hair Extensions:  Not For Extended Periods

Before: Damage After Hairlocs Removal.  After: Fusion: Hate It And It Looks Awful, Too.

I once read a comment by some random celebrity (I can’t remember who, now) “The fastest way to having short hair, sans cutting it off, is to get hair extensions.”  Truer words were never spoken.  I have documented my experience with hair extensions over a 5 year period with 9 different systems so that you can better avoid the problems that I had.  I no longer have extensions but I have had enough experience with many methods to have an informed opinion about it.  I am not trying to dissuade anyone from getting them, I just want you to know what you are getting into with each method and the reality of its effects on your natural hair.  Hair extensions are not for everyone.

I sustained considerable hair damage, a huge dent in my pocket book but walked away with a ton of personal experience.

Photos and more: http://yestheyrefake.net/hair_extensions.htm

It’s That Time Again! Crash Beauty Tips for the Holidays!

Christmas Eve is less than a week away, what can we possibly do to look our best in only a week? And in this economy??  More than you think. I know I am a little late in the countdown for mini procedures such as Botox and Restylane [since I had it done a little over a month ago], but there are things you can do.

Today I took a before and whew! was I haggard.  My face is freshly scrubbed in this pic, I’m blotchy, and my hair is still in the growing phase after recovering from the horror of extensions, but it’s all I have to work with. Plus, I am nursing a pretty good injury and have left the house since last weekend–and once only to brave the shopping malls.  So, go easy please.  I was looking back on photos from a little over a year ago and I realized I had been letting myself “go” for lack of a better word. I don’t know if it is a matter of getting comfortable in my own skin, the extreme sports taking their toll, or simply lack of time. But it is time to stop moping, get out of my PJs and hit the salon!  I am on a mission to at least resemble what I did not too long ago.

  • First Goal: Slim Down and FAST! I am on a strict diet of salmon and non-starchy vegetables until Christmas.  That’s it, these winter pounds have got to go!  I am up to 129 lb. and I prefer to be at 120. Eeek. Plus it will be good for my skin, I’ll detox and I won’t feel so badly when I have some sweet potatoes at dinner on the 25th.  I have got to stop yo-yo dieting. I excel at it.
  • Exercise: While I realize muscle tone is just not going to happen for me by Christmas, I know that exercise will help my complexion and health in general. But quite frankly I can barely walk so I don’t see this happening, However, if you are able to increase your cardio, it will help you lose some holiday fat and energize you for the tasks ahead. My New Year’s Resolution, start exercising more.  Just staying as active as I am really doesn’t do anything for my body, the extreme sports only break nails and gives me bruises, nothing more.  Hiking helps, but in all honestly, the only time I hike is to jump off of something. I should start mountain biking, but I find that as much fun as paying taxes. This is my year, however.  I need to suck it up and just do it!
  • Skincare: My skincare regimen has been working.  My Finacea is starting to take effect and my breakouts are far less. I could use less blotchiness and frankly, a another Cosmelan mask would do me a world of good. But I know I need to be careful on changing anything this close to an event, i.e. using Retin A, etc. so I am not taking any chances.  A little mild exfoliation and some moisturizer will keep me in the right direction without rocking the boat.  I really don’t recommend getting a facial unless you are accustomed to doing it regularly.  Extractions and skincare changes can cause eruptions and the last thing you want to do is look like Rudolph as you sit down for ham.
  • Water Is Your Friend.  With all of this indoor heating and freezing outdoor temperatures, it will do you well.  I am truly awful about drinking water. I am going to increase my water intake and further flush out the toxins and keep my skin hydrated.  My second New Year’s Resolution is to get my timer back out (the only way I remember and force myself) and drink 6 ounces every hour.  Although I should start today!
  • Supplements: I wonder if supplements taken this early would do anything at all. Probably not, but increasing my Vitamin C would at least help my immune system during cold season. In can’t hurt, right? I am so bad about remembering to take my supplements. I don’t like taking pills period, much less huge horse pills that taste awful.  But I know it would benefit me both internally and aesthetically.  I will place them nesxt to the coffee machine. hehe.  Also, I am thinking about taking a prenatal every other day.  Any thoughts on this?
  • Hair: I am going to make a hair appointment for Monday.  My roots are just coming out so it is in that inbetween-maybe-I-should-but-I-really-don’t-have-to-stage. Although a good moisturizing treatment and blowout will make me feel better and certainly add to the mini-makeover. My hair has done nothing but stay up in a scrunchie for a while now.  Oh how I wish I could have long hair FAST! Since removing my extensions, I miss the long, perfect hair that I could never grow on my own. But I know I will regret it if I put them back in.  Besides, it’s an expense I really don’t need.
  • Nails! OH MY GOODNESS. I need a manicure and pedicure. I haven’t had one in about 2 months.  I suggest getting one this weekend or early next week.  I miss my acrylics but my lifestyle doesn’t really support having them.  But I miss them :(   Lately I have been debating putting them back on.
  • Make-Up: While I’m at the mall for last minute shopping, I am going to stop in at Bare Escentuals and have them do my eye make up.  Maybe purchase a few new smoky colors. I am not to daring in the eye makeup department, my diva downfall for sure. I only ever wear a little when I am attending an event, in formal attire, rarely (if ever) any other time. I should probably put more effort into looking a little more made up.
  • Sunless Tan: I know it stinks but it makes me look a little less like a corpse.  I am so pale in the winter!  I want to look a little more vibrant, at least like I don’t have one foot in the grave and one on a banana peel. So, to add some warmth to my pallor, I am going to break out the sunless tanner about 2 days before Christmas Eve. That way I can get two layers applied, and hopefully can get rid of the stink a little more before the party.
  • A New Outfit: A nice new festively red sweater may do me well, with perhaps a pair of slimming black slacks and high-heeled boots.  It’s simple, it’s subtle, it works. It will make me look taller, and hopefully thinner.  Those alone are enough to make me like it. 

For me the winter takes its toll every year. I don’t like the cold and when I do go out in it, it is normally to ski or whatever. Try as I might, I can’t really stay looking my best with a red face and runny nose.  Although after looking at photos from not so long ago, and then comparing them to today? I look so much older in my opinion. I can see the effects of facial aging and past procedure mistakes, and my metabolism seems slower.  This aging business is not on the top of my list of favorite activities. But, alas, Father Time is someone I’d like to punch in the nose. I guess the only thing to do is roll up my sleeves, take a defensive stance, and meet the challenge head-on. Like I said, this year is the year!  I believe I can make a good turn around…

Hair Transplants: Guys Please Don’t Be Ashamed

So I was sitting in the movie theater watching the previews and a preview for Bangkok Dangerous with Nicolas Cage.  He has obviously had hair transplants, and he looks so much better!  HIS dyed black hair accentuates the facial fat loss he is experiencing as he ages, but the darker color also makes his hair look thicker.  Kudos. 

Let’s face it.  Guys we love hair.  I am sorry, but we do.  You guys like perky boobs and thin, toned bodies, and we like HAIR.  There is absolutely nothing wrong with using Rogaine, Propecia, or getting hair transplants.  My boyfriend is getting thin on top and he needs to use Rogaine. I have seen many people recover the loss they have experienced, or at the very least keep further loss at bay.  Such a simple thing to do every morning, why not add this to your morning regimen right after your deodorant or brushing your teeth? 

You’re beautiful with your hair.  We like running our fingers through it.  So please, if you have the capability to stop the loss in its tracks or restore what you’ve lost, please do. Although a shaved head when you have nothing to work with is hot as well.  

p.s. Don’t forget to pluck or trim the nose and ear hairs.  We don’t like hair there. :)

WEN Hair Care Products?

wenAs I was lying on the bed using my Wellbox unit, I flipped on the television and came across an infomercial for WEN Haircare products by Chaz Dean. Ever since removing my extensions my hair has gotten so much healthier. Of courses I have had to cut off a lot of damage, change homecare products and go in for regular treatments. But still, I feel my homecare is still lacking.

I am a sucker for infomercials (especially kitchen items and those As Seen on TV tools and what not; think Mighty Putty and the MXZ Saw. Yes, I own them both) and don’t want to waste any more money. A thirty day supply of the WEN Haircare line is $29.95 and for that you get the Cleansing Conditioner, Styling Creme, Re Moist Intensive Hair Repair Mask, plus two bonuses: Texture Balm and a Wide Tooth Shower Comb. The only problem is that they put you on an automatic shipment list and nothing irritates me more. Proactiv does that and although I am not incredibly perturbed about Proactiv’s auto-shipments, the fact that I did not have a choice without jumping through hoops is incredibly presumptuous in my opinion.

So for now, I am not going to order it until I can get some real consumer feedback on the line. Afterall, my hair is getting better. It just isn’t improving as fast as I would like it to–as in more than humanly possible. I was wondering if anyone has ever tried this line and if so, do you feel that it really does improve the hair?  Any feedback would be greatly appreciated!

Do Blondes Really Have More Fun?

Who really knows if one has more fun than the other, but one thing is for sure, we spend as lot of time and money trying to keep it blond.   I have been dyeing my hair since I was about hairspray14.  That’s 22 years of maintenance, cost, and hair tragedies.  It all started with a frosting kit, and then it grew to full on root touch-ups with tri-color weaves.  I have paid as little as a few bucks for bleach and developer, to a few hundred dollars in color corrections. I have had splitting, melting, breaking, frying—it’s tough being a blonde!!

If you have fine, yet darker hair, staying healthy and without brassiness can be a challenge.  My hair is very fine, and I don’t have much of it.  It is also dark, too dark so it lifts orange if I am not careful.  So I usually have to lighten it, and even highlight over that.  I have tried double processing (which ruined my hair), I have tried toners, which only turns my hair purple and then as it faded my hair turns yellow again.   You name it, I have probably tried it.

So what does work?  Well, good hair is a science not practiced by all stylists. Finding a FANTASTIC stylist is the secret.  I will stalk my stylist if she moves without telling me. No amount of drugstore color, or beauty store bleach, is going to usually turn out that great, or keep your hair at its healthiest, especially if you are fairly, naturally dark.  

Environmental and other outside factors can also affect your color and hair health as well as turn it different colors, like green (chlorine)! Or red (well-water, minerals).   Using gentle clarifying shampoos can help but sometimes you need to pick your battles, ergo stay out of the pool, use bottled water to rinse with.

Don’t stick with all one color…highlights and lowlights can add depth to blonde hair.  Don’t mix perms and other similar chemicals with bleaching.   Mixing extensions with very highlighted hair is also risking breakage.  So many rules and guidelines!  Keeping your hair beautifully blonde without spending a fortune is a difficult task indeed.  Just keep in mind that finding a great stylist is the key, you can’t achieve natural-looking, and healthy, blonde hair without someone who knows what they are doing.  The search can take literally years.  And when you find her, trade numbers, don’t ever let her go, promise your firstborn. Anything!

Green Acres is the Place to Be…

horsesFarm living is the life for me.  Ahhh out of Malibu, and into the wild, wild West.  What a change this all is.  No longer can I grab my board and take off to the beach in the morning.  Now it’s all about waking up at stupid o’ clock to feed the horses, and watching the coyotes run around in my backyard in the evenings.  Seriously. 

It has always been a dream of mine to get out of the city and have my own ranch.  I used to live in Texas as a child with my own horses and now realize just how much work my parents really did to keep the place going.  Now, with just me, myself, and I, the work never ends.   It’s a never ending routine which assures me an early bedtime every night.  I now go to bed sore from horseback riding, hauling wood or hay, weed-eating, installing solar lights, you name it, I can do it.  I even bought my own chainsaw!  Imagine replacing my foot spa with a chainsaw!! 

The peacefulness and tranquility of living out in the country is unbelievable.  It is quiet (except for the horses, hawks, owls, and coyotes—but I love it) and the sunrises and sunsets are beautiful.  But, like everything else it is not without its downsides.  For instance, I have no Internet connection as of yet and have been working out of either Starbuck’s or the dropzone for two weeks.  I have been advised I will not have Internet for at least another two weeks.  It took me 2 weeks to get a working phone into the house, the DirectTV guy couldn’t get out here for a while, in fact even though it is set up, I still can’t watch TV.  Cell phone coverage is a cruel joke.   The wild cucumber is taking over everything and all I do is pull them out just to have 2 pop up in its place a few days later.  My automatic security gate closed on my car when I was stupidly admiring my newly installed amber solar lights, so now I have a dent on one side and paint chipped off on both doors.  I have to drive 10 miles to get to a grocery store, but I have to drive slowly because of the coyotes and deer.  But like I said, I love it!

I do not, however, love what it is doing to my body.  I have no nails, in fact they were so thin from the acrylics all these years that they are jagged and splitting, so I removed the acrylic.   My roots are about a foot long, my extensions need to be redone (if I redo them at all), and I need a pedicure so very badly.  My skin is dry, and breaking out.  How can this be??  I have a slight sunburn on my neck (OMG I literally am a redneck) because when I went riding yesterday (horses, not bikes) I put sunscreen on everywhere BUT my neck because I thought it was covered.  My lips are chapped too, I am sore as can be, and I need a massage.  I am not sipping lattes in Beverly Hills anymore., I’m a ranch-hand.   I need to get used to this or it will kill me.

I figure as soon as I get everything in order (is it ever in order??) I am going to undergo an emergency beauty jam session.  I am just plain skanky.  Heck, I realized I hadn’t shaved in a week when I stopped to throw on my work jeans and saw the stubble.  Nice.

Well, I am off to Starbuck’s to use their WiFi and my weekly articles uploaded.  Maybe I’ll stay for a Caramel Macchiato…

Hair Restoration: Hair-Brained Idea or Better Than Being Bald?

malehairFirst off, I am absolutely for hair restoration by any means.  It feels awful to lose one’s hair.  If you can regain it by supplements, medications, topicals, or surgery, by all means, do so if you wish.  I will never make fun of toupees, wigs “bad” hair plugs, extensions, or anything of the sort.  Mother Nature can be a nasty wench when she wants to be, so if you so desire, arm yourself and reverse the process if you can.  Take no prisoners because this is war!

Beautiful hair is such an enviable asset.  Long, thick, lustrous and plentiful. Well, I have thin, baby-fine hair and after getting extensions for a documentary a few years ago it is now damaged beyond repair unless I remove them and start from scratch.  Not to mention that brow lift that I should not have had caused my left hairline to be too high (in my opinion) and the hair loss around the incision line and abscesses I developed from the sutures are also hair-free.  I hesitate to say hairless because it sounds mortifying to me.

Medical hair restoration is definitely an option if you need to rearrange the furniture upstairs.  I actually know quite a few people who have had hair replacement and have been fortunate to observe the process from before, intra-operatively, during the growth and the after.  I have considered when I get the time and the will I may ‘head’ in to replace the hair I lost on my incisions. However, I REALLY would rather something like hair ‘cloning’ (actually hair multiplication) because I don’t want a strip taken from the back of my head.  So, here I sit waiting to go to the U.K., Italy or Spain when they get it right.  Which will come out ahead?  The Cloning or The Frustration? 

Just be sure to do your research because I have seen some less than stellar hair transplants.  When it is obvious on the hairline, or you have too few implants evenly spaced, it will be apparent that you’ve had a poor hair replacement procedure. 

First, I would personally determine if your loss is health, injury, genetic, and/or age-related. If you are simply malnourished, or you’ve had a recent trauma or surgery, you may not need a true ‘treatment’.  You can help determine the cause by a family medical history profile, medical tests to measure your testosterone levels, or have a full blood panel work up.  You don’t have to jump into a hair restoration clinic chair.  Determine the cause first before you treat a symptom that may not even be an issue. 

Although there is no baldness “cure”, there are alternative hair loss treatments.  If you are reaching middle age and just starting to lose your hair and you wish to hold out on surgical means, you can always try serums or topical medications first.  They don’t work for everyone, and there are many who don’t believe they work at all.  You will only know if you try.  You could start out with something as simple as Nioxin hair products.  My hair stylist in San Francisco swears by them, and my ex-boyfriend seemed to like them as well.  I personally didn’t have the patience for them as I did not notice any thickening and this was long before my brow lift and/or extensions.  I think mine is pretty much genetic baby-fine hair.  Although, I don’t understand because both of my parents have thick, full heads of hair and mine has always been fine and thin.  Rotten luck I guess.

Most times, hairloss is caused by the presence of dyhydrotestosterone (DHT) in the scalp.    DHT is the product of when an enzyme called 5-alpha reductase converts normal testosterone into DHT.  DHT blockers or reduction systems include products such as Crinagen and Revivogen.   

You may have heard of circulation increasers like Retin-A and Tricomin.  Retin-A has been shown to increase hair growth by stimulating angiogenesis, as well as allowing other products, such as Rogaine, to more efficiently enter the skin.  My bestfriend uses both of these and says they really help, however she decided to get hair transplants anyway. Tricomin uses copper peptides to stimulate hair growth.  She has tried this as well and did not adhere to the treatment.

Rogaine, a topical minoxidil product, is proably the most common over-the-counter (OTC) product used today.  What it can do is increase the size of your hair follicles once they have decreased in size.  It can result in a thicker hair shaft and possibly new hair growth for dormant follicles.  However, minoxidil has not effectively produced much hair growth in the front of the hairline.  Unfortunately Rogaine is best at delaying your hairloss, not reversing it.  If you notice thinning of the hair at the crown, you may wish to begin a Rogaine regimen to keep the hair that you left.  Also, once you start, you can’t stop or you reverse the progress, if any, that you do experience.

Propecia utilizes a drug call Finasteride in pill form.  Finasteride, like Revivogen, works by reducing the presence of dyhydrotestosterone (DHT) in the scalp.   However, Propecia is FDA approved and has been proven to do so. Also, like minoxidil, finasteride only increases hair growth on the crown—not the front hairline.  Nothing non-surgical seems to help the front hairline.  Another con?  Propecia is scary business for use in female patients if you are pregnant, or trying.  You have probably been told that you can’t even touch it if you are pregnant or attempting to become so.  Why?  Finasteride can cause a birth defect in males, called hypospadias, which causes the urethra to open on the underside of the penis instead of its rightful place at the end.  It is caused from the blocking of essential hormones necessary for a male fetus to develop.  There are mild to severe cases which are determined by the distance of the urethra from the tip of the penis.  Patients with severe cases may have the urethral opening as low as a scrotal or perennial placement.

Low Level Lasers—do they work.  How is it even purported to work?  It is supposed to increase the circulation and increase hair growth.  I have seen the before and after photos just as you have and it looks impressive. ?  I have actually been under a laser hair restoration machine as a research and can’t, for the life of me, determine how it truly can be beneficial for people with hair, especially with extension bonds close to the scalp blocking the laser from even going near your follicles.  There is no way that the laser light can touch every follicle, much less even 25% of them, even if you don’t have extensions and just have medium to long hair on top.  Now, I have seen some pretty tall claims on the Internet regarding the laser’s ability to repair chemically-treated hair.  What??  That doesn’t even deserve a response.  I can see if your hair is very short or you have just had transplants, MAYBE.  But, on a natural head of relatively long hair?  Good luck.

Hair transplants.  Sorry, but this is the only proven method to effectively grow hair in the front hairline and to extend the hairline in general.  The back of the hair consists of follicles not genetically prone to hair loss in most people.  Most hairloss is prevalent in the crown and front to slightly front-side hair line.  Ever hear of Male Pattern Baldness?  Well, the follicles from the rear of the head are transplanted to the front because these follicles are typically immune to premature dormancy in most people.  Just be sure to do your research because a good surgeon will transplant the fine hairs to your temples, and not implant big ole honkin’ follicles in this place so that it is less obvious.  Hair transplant surgery is not a cake walk.  It takes a while to fully recovery and even longer (about a year and a half) to truly start growing hair.  Most will sprout within a few weeks but they will be short, and colorless and fragile.  Leave them be!  Not all of the follicles will maintain their ability to grow hair due to the trauma, and most will seem to “fall out” before they are even given a chance.  Don’t look in the mirror, and go find a hobby.

Take care when delving into the world of hair restoration. It will take time to discover what works for you, and any surgical means requires patience and a bit of luck.  Don’t lose hope, however.  I still have my thoughts on hair cloning.  It will be the wave of the future.  You don’t need to sacrifice too many healthy follicles because of the multiplication process. Hair stems cells are removed from healthy follicles on your scalp and then multiplied in a matrix in a petri dish.  The stems cells are then implanted into the scalp where the hairloss has occurred.  Not only do these stem cells grow into healthy follicles, they actually produce chemical signals that promote regeneration in dormant follicles which are near the implantation sites. Check out http://www.intercytex.com/ for more info.

Good luck!